Have you ever noticed that people who grew up with sisters have a different vibe than those who don’t? And no. I’m not talking about freaking out every time periods are mentioned. I mean a stronger level of emotional intelligence.
Psychotherapist Imani Movva says, “Having a sister enhances one’s ability to be a communicative and empathic partner.” This is probably because women are typically better at self-reflection and really awesome at perceiving others’ needs, she explains. So when you grow up around all that (no matter your gender) means you’ll absorb some of it yourself.
Another important thing to note is that “someone who grew up with female siblings likely learned how to compromise, have patience, or, at the very least, wait their turn,” adds relationship expert Stephania Cruz.
Obviously a guy can’t help it if they don’t have a sister. But, there are plenty of guys who are close to their moms, aunts, girl friends, etc. who might get that sister energy from them instead. Adding in this quality when looking for a partner is a total game changer. You’ll get less eye rolls when you want to vent about people (who TBH don’t really matter), more thought-out “just because” gifts, fewer half-assed apologies, and someone who really understands women.
Highly* recommend dating someone who has sisters (or at least sister-type) in their life.
