For those of us struggling to achieve spiritual awakening and peace of mind naturally, there is no better time than the present to include meditating into our self-care routine.
However, to many, the concept of sitting still in silence—concentrating on breathing and shutting out all thoughts—can be intimidating. Luckily, you don’t need to be a monk or have that level of discipline to try this kind of mindfulness therapy, according to Andy Puddicombe, co-founder of Headspace, which specializes in meditation and wellness that offers tiny audio sessions on everything from productivity to stress, anxiety, and insomnia.
“When I went into training in the Tibetan tradition, I learned a whole new philosophy–about how you approach life and meditation, how you integrate the practice into your everyday life. It doesn’t matter if you’re sitting; meditate when you’re doing the dishes, when you’re looking after your children, when you’re working—anybody and everyone can do this,” says the former Buddhist monk who spent ten years traveling around the world, peaking with ordination as a Tibetan Buddhist monk in Northern India.
Here, we list six simple steps to begin your meditating journey, especially if you’re a beginner.
Just begin
The first step to meditation can be to just sit by yourself and think of nothing, says yoga, wellness and image coach and inside-out transformations facilitator, Garima Bhandari. “Just tune into the rhythm of your breath that will lead you to the realm of your inner consciousness and awareness. The most powerful and mindful meditation is the observation and reflection on your thoughts that come in and out of your mind during the process. This allows you to get in touch with yourself at a deeper level and provides emotional stability that helps you manage your fluctuating moods, self-limiting thoughts, and varying emotions,” she continues.
Clinical psychotherapist Radhika Bapat says that the dedicated scientific community has proven benefits coming from techniques such as breathing retraining, progressive relaxation, guided visualizations, yoga, and Ayurvedic massages, when done correctly.
Meditate whenever you can, for as long as you can
Puddicombe suggests starting small. “Like start with three minutes, and you do that for a week. Three minutes feels okay? Great, then do five minutes a day. Then maybe work up to 10 minutes a day. But start with the basics,” he says. Consistency is key to see any kind of positive effects of meditation as well. “The body needs to get habituated to the effects of the practice, and this takes time depending on what your goal is. In some forms of meditation, 20 minutes a day, to begin with, every day, is enough. Other kinds require an hour or more. Immediate effects of meditation are usually felt with helping induce sleep and reducing muscle tension and thereby pain,” says Bapat.
Gather what you need
“Depending on the kind of relaxation technique you use, a quiet space devoid of distractions, noise-cancellation headphones, a sticky mat or “chaadar” to sit on and if required lie down on, and phones on a do-not-disturb mode,” are things that will help you prep for your session, explains Bapat.
Create a safe space
Find a quiet area in your home which is free of clutter and distractions, where the lighting is soft, says Bhandari. “If possible, try to make this corner your own sacred spot by putting up things that add to your positive vibe.”
Schedule a time in your day to focus on meditating
Just as most experts would recommend, Bhandari and Bapat agree that while the ideal time to meditate is in the morning, the best time is whenever you find the time. “It is better to meditate at any time than to not meditate at all,” Bhandari says. Preferably schedule a time early in the morning or in the evening when you don’t have to provide to the needs of your home or workplace, and avoid eating for at least an hour before your practice, adds Bapat.
Find a class, app or program that will help you
Bapat’s picks include programs run by the BKS Iyengar Institute. “Having attended them, the thing I most appreciate is their authenticity. The Ashtanga Yoga and Hatha Yoga Institute at Mysore is also very well-known,” she says. Other suggestions include apps like Aura, Headspace, Smiling Mind, 10% Happier, Inscape, Sattva and Freedom Guru. These apps work for different kinds of meditating—whether you want to meditate to ambient sounds, need a carefully-chosen playlist or would like a guided meditation that’ll allow you to get there.
“The idea of meditation is to ‘unlearn’ and let go of the baggage that we have collected over the years, and that is the beauty of it. It is not a quick-fix remedy, but with dedication, patience and discipline, one can get to get to a state of mind where one can truly understand the concept of meditation and practice it effectively,” says Bhandari.
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